The One That Got Away

Assalamualaikum and greetings . . .

This is not a review about the Katy Perry song.. Sorry.. Hehe.. But i love that song... Seriously... It was my love who let me know about the song . . But both of us really hope that our ending is not the same with the song . . We wish for a happy ending of course... Hehe.. Pray for us ye...?? >.<

The one that got away..
It is norm for every person in this world to have something or someone that once belong to us, to go away .... Didnt mind if that person or  that something leaves us with her/his/its wills or not. . . However . . . It never fails to make us sad when it happens . . .

I have a friend . . She lost her mom in a car accident last year just before she went into the college . . . (Al Fatihah . . .) This is truly a big lost for her . . . Until this day on . . She still feels the lost and she never fails to cry when she take a step into her mother house . . The voices of her mom's nag still can be heared . . And sometimes . . The silence of her house just makes her didnt wanna go home cause it makes her miss her mother more . . .

This scenes are actually happen around us . . . In us . . . With or without our notice . . Sometimes it is big . . And sometimes it is too small to be seen . . . That is why we need to take good care of everyone and everything that we have around us . .  Families . . Friends . .  Loves one . . Or even books . . . Because once we lost it , we might not get it back . . .

 But of course . . . When we lost something or someone . .  The sadness just cant go away . . The more we love for her/him/it . . Deeper the pain . . Our religion Islam already show us the way out of this pain.. The nonsense solution such as suicide should not even cross in our mind . . That is why the one that should be the first in our heart and mind is Allah SWT only . . . He will never leave us . . .

When we succeed to put Him in His place where He should be in our heart , no matter whatever or whoever that got away from us , it will never take us down . . Because we believe in Him . . Everything that happens must have something good behind it . . There must be a reason why He take that something or someone away from us . . As He says in Surah Al Baqarah verse 216:

Fighting is prescribed for you, and ye dislike it. But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you, and that ye love a thing which is bad for you. But Allah knoweth, and ye know not

When we feel lost . .  Turn back to Him . . He will never let us down . . As long as we get a grip on Him . . As long as we have faith in Him . . . Perhaps the lost is a sign from Allah SWT for us to turn back to Him . . . Or it might be a test . . Which we will be rewarded if we stay on His path along the test . . .

So . . No matter if your boyfriend or girlfriend leaves you . . . Or someone that you truly love have gone . . Never let the grip go . . Be strong . . No matter how hard it is . . Remember this quote . . .

" Allah SWT never promise us that living in this world would be easy . . . But He promise us to stay with us no matter what . . . " by Stanza Cinta . .

Have faith in Him my brothers and sisters . . . InsyaAllah you'll feel better . . . :) 

Smile always!! >.< 

This post is actually is a reminder for myself too of course . . . 

Written from the memory of my friend.. 
Sorry about the language . . . 

Hehe . . .